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Mar 12, 2006

Give up... for God!


What about trying to put the following into practice this Lent?

Give up complaining... focus on gratitude.
Give up pessimism... become an optimist.
Give up harsh judgement... think kind thoughts.
Give up worry... trust divine providence.
Give up discouragement... be full of hope.
Give up bitterness... turn to forgiveness.
Give up hatred... return good for evil.
Give up negativism... be positive.
Give up anger... practice patience.
Give up pettiness... put on maturity.
Give up gloom... enjoy the beauty that is all around you.
Give up jealousy... pray for trust.
Give up gossiping... control your tongue.
Give up sin... turn to virtue.

"All I want is to know Christ... and become like him in his death, in the hope that I myself will be raised from death to life." - Philippians 3:10-11

My 1st week of Lent


The 2nd week of Lent has started today. Looking back at how I did in the first week, honestly I haven't done much. Of the 15 ways to improve my lent, I only practised... ONE - point no.3. Arrgh, what a shame.

I wonder what was wrong with my tongue lately. When things did not go as I expected, those familiar words were automatically added to my sentences. I did not realise it most of the time, only after the words were uttered. "Audrey, stop cursing!" A friend of mine would never fail yielling at me everytime she heard those words coming from me. *Sigh* Really bad, is it not?

For the 2nd week of Lent, I would like to specially practise point no.8 -- observe five minutes of silence every day. I hope not just for 5 minutes, but for the whole day. I want to learn how to control my tongue, when to talk and when not to. At these moments of silence, I want my thoughts to be occupied by God alone. And most importantly, I'm sure I lack humility.

There are so many things I wish to do to improve my christian life (not just my Lent!), but the more I planned, the less I take them into practice. I did not have enough sleep last week as I wanted to finish my thesis draft; perhaps my lack of sleep caused all the resentments in me.

How was your first week of Lent?

I pray that all those who are preparing for Easter will walk more closely with Jesus this week. God bless everyone.

Q&A About the Saints

Here are the FAQs which I've promised. If you're looking for an answer to your questions, this might be able to help.


Q63. Why pray to Saints? Is it not better to pray to God directly?

A: Not always. The same answer implies here as in the case of prayers to the Virgin Mary, who after all is the greatest of the Saints. God may wish to give certain favors through the intercession of some given Saint. In such a case, it is better to seek the intercession of that Saint as God wishes. I can decide to give you a gift myself, or to do so through a friend. In the latter case you do me greater honor by accepting it from my friend than by refusing my way of giving it to you, and insolently demanding it directly from myself in person.


Q64. I pray that you may see the futility of praying to Saints who can do nothing for you. Christ is the only Mediator.

A: By your very prayer you are attempting to mediate between God and myself on my behalf. I do not criticize the principle of praying for others. I believe in that. But I do criticize your praying for me in violation of your own principles. If the Saints cannot be mediators by praying for me, nor can you. Your prayers would be futile; they could do nothing for me; and you would be wasting your time.


Q65. When did God tell anyone to pray to human beings?

A: When the Catholic Church teaches us that prayer to the Saints is right and useful, it is God teaching us that truth through His Church. But the doctrine is clearly enough indicated in Scripture also. I have mentioned Abraham's prayer for Sodom (Gen 18:20). The Jews asked Moses to go to speak to God on their behalf. God Himself said to Eliphaz, the Themanite, "My wrath is kindled against thee... but my servant Job shall pray for you. His face I will accept that folly be not imputed to you." (Job 42:8). Earlier in that same book we read, "Call now if there will be any that will answer thee, and turn to some of the Saints." (Job 5:1). His enemies meant that Job was too wicked to be heard, but they knew that it was lawful to invoke the Saints. Long after the death of Jeremiah, Onias said of that prophet, "This is the lover of his brethren and of the people of Israel. This is he that prayeth much for the people and for all the holy city; Jeremiah, the prophet of God." (2 Mach.15:14). St. James says that "prayer of a just man availeth much." (James 5:16). If his prayer is valuable, it is worth while to ask his prayers. If you say, "Yes. That is all right whilst a man is still in this life and on earth," I ask whether you think he has less power when in Heaven with God? In Rev. 8:4, St.John says that he saw "the prayers of the Saints ascending up before God from the hand of an angel." If I can ask my own mother to pray for me whilst she is still in this life, surely I can do so when she is with God! She does not know less when she rejoices in the Vision of God; she has not less interest in me; and she is not less charitably disposed towards me then. We Catholics believe in the Communion of Saints, and are in communion with them. But for you the doctrine of the Apostles' Creed, "I believe in the Communion of Saints," must be a meaningless formula. Christ is not particularly honored by our ignoring those who loved and served Him best, and whom He loves so much.


Q66. The Lord's Prayer shows that God Himself hears our prayers.

A: Correct. And He hears the prayers we addressed to the Saints, and their prayers also on our behalf. And those prayers, added to our own, give us additional claims to be heard by God in a favorable way.


Q67. By what authority does the Catholic Church make Saints?

A: The decree of canonization does not make a Saint. It simply declares infallibly that a given person has lived such a holy life with the help of God's grace that he is a Saint. When someone like a Francis of Assisi lives such a holy life that all people are compelled to admire it, the Church is often asked to say whether such a person is worthy to be honored publicly as a Saint. The Church then carefully collects all possible information, and, after due consideration, says yes or no. If the Church says yes, the name of the person to be venerated is put into the Canon or catalogue of those who have become Saints by their heroic lives of virtue. The Church has the authority of Christ for these decisions, for He sent her with His authority to teach all nations in matters of faith and morals, and she could not tell us officially that a given person was a perfect model of Christian virtue if such a person were not.


Q68. Who has the final say as to whether a soul deserves canonization?

A: The Pope. Before he defines that a given soul is indeed a Saint, the advocates of the cause must prove that the person in question exercised all Christian virtue in a heroic degree - supreme faith, hope, and charity; perfect prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance. Also God's own testimony by proven miracles wrought through the person's intercession is required. The infallibility of the Church in such decisions is, as I have said, but an application of ordinary infallibility in matters of faith and morals, in so far as the Church could not err in proposing a given life as an exemplification of perfect Christian virtue.


Q69. How does the church know that those she calls Saints are in Heaven?

A: With the assistance of the Holy Spirit, she can and does know. She knows God, and knows what holiness is. She examines the life of the holy person, and says that such a life certainly could not lead a soul to Hell. The Church canonizes only those whose heroic virtue has been proved. And perfect charity before death destroys all sin, and all punishment due to sin. There is no place where such a soul could be, save in Heaven. Also miracles wrought by God in honor of such a one are His guarantee.




Adapted from Virgin and Statue Worship: Quizzes to A Street Preacher, by Fr. Chas. M. Carty & Rev. Dr. L. Rumble; TAN BOOKS AND PUBLISHERS, INC., P.O.Box 424, Rockford, Illinois 61105.

Mar 5, 2006

What drives your live?


I find that reading and reflecting upon the Purpose Driven Life is really a good idea, suggested by Piscotikus. Thanks for the reminder, Piscotikus!

If you have the Purpose Driven Life book and you've stopped half way through it, let's together pick it up again this Lent. However, if you've never heard of it and would like to give it a try, then grab that book and start reading! Then drop by here to share your thoughts. But please keep in mind that only those who have read the book can participate in the sharing.

Let us accompany the Lord in His journey to Resurrection. God bless.

Mar 3, 2006

Ways to improve my lent

I've read through all the 40 Ways to Improve Your Lent and realized that I couldn't practice all of them. So I've picked out some of them which I THINK I should be able (or at least I'll try my best) to 'accomplish' during this Lenten season. Sharing with you the few of them (copied and pasted directly from the original list)...

  1. Learn about your patron saint. [I still don't know who my patron saint is. Anyway, I'll be choosing a booklet about one of the many saints available on the shelf at home. The Saint whose story I picked will be my saint.]
  2. Pray for - by name - people you don’t like and for people that don’t like you. [No comment.]
  3. Start a "cuss bowl." For every unkind word you utter, put in a dollar - two dollars during Holy Week. After Easter, give the money to an English as a second language program. [I seriously need to discipline my tongue during this Lent, it's been very bad lately. Perhaps I would give the money to the Catholic Welfare Service here.]
  4. Pray for those, e.g., children, parents, spouse, siblings, who have left the church. [And also for some friends. Hopefully God will change their hearts. Anyone else who needs prayers please let me know.]
  5. Receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. [So anyone dares to admit that he/she doesn't need this?]
  6. Test your knowledge of Scripture. [I'll try to read the bible more consistantly, have been really lagged off. Is there any bible quiz online?]
  7. Attend Mass at a parish other than your own. [Got to try, can't do it if I don't have transport.]
  8. Observe five minutes of silence every day. [Oh yes... something I need seriously.]
  9. Use a Lenten theme in decorating part of a room. [Interesting, so I guess I can try that out.]
  10. Memorize a Proverb. [Memorizing is something I hate real much. So I really need to 'overcome' this...]
  11. Disconnect the TV and/or the computer. [I think most probably the TV. I need to blog, so certainly not the computer -- no games though.]
  12. Remove your watch before leaving for church on Palm Sunday. [I'll do it after I sat down at my comfort zone. Hey I don't want to be late for choir!!]
  13. Sacrifice your time in order to help others. [Yups, I will do it most willingly... even though exam might be right tomorrow.]
  14. Pull the rosary out of your drawer and say it. Too boring? Say the Scriptural rosary. [Am gonna find out how to say the Scriptural rosary. I need that, 'cos everytime I pray the rosary alone I would certainly fall asleep before I finish all the decades. I'm so sorry Lord!!]
  15. Develop a prayer list. [For all who need prayers, kindly drop me a mail or let me know in the comment box and message box. Why not we form a special prayer team so we can pray together and pray for each other?]
Gosh... honestly, I didn't know I've actually shortened the list of 40 items into a list of 15. Doesn't matter how long the list is, most importantly we must be able to keep our promise to God of what we will do/sacrifice during this Lent. What about you? Have you thought of what to be done?


p.s. Please pray for my safety as I'll be on a trip to a forest reserve tomorrow. Thank you!